Misplaced Loyalty

Women want to prove their loyalty to men who have conveniently forgotten theirs.

We try to outdo the other woman.

Let me cook for you bae, let me get your credit fixed, let me fight the girl that’s keeping you from me because it’s got to be her fault.

On some pick me type shit.

I often wonder, when we are sitting at home thinking about them, crying over them if they are at home doing the same thing?

We all know men handle things differently.

We cry and eat buckets of cookies to show our sadness.

They get drunk, high, and have sexual encounters with other women.

Is it because they too are sad? Or is it because that’s just what they wanna do?

10/10 the answer is B.

Do you know what we do when we find our unfaithful men with another woman? We attack that woman.

It’s easier to be at odds with each other when really it’s STILL that nigga fault.

At what point are we going to direct our energy towards the person that deserves it?

We hate the woman and love the man.

“ You beat her up bae. That shows you love me and now I choose you” is what we think the outcome gon be.

No, he still gon fuck with these hoes and especially the hoe you beat up.

She got something to prove to you. She ain’t going nowhere.

She is going to be a thorn in your side forever.

You gon walk-in yo man’s house on Valentine’s Day trying to surprise him and shorty is going to walk out of the bathroom with her robe on.

I’ll bet your first reaction is to lay hands on her, but after that, you still gon mess with him? Most likely.

It’s not that we really want him it’s more so now it’s a competition between me and her.

My best advice is to leave her and him alone.

“ Tell that trifling ass bitch she can have you I ain’t looking at you no more I’m looking past you” but who really has the confidence of Trina?

It’s so hard to be angry at the person you devoted your whole life to.

The person you love on a day to day basis.

It’s so hard to accept the fact that THEY would intentionally cause so much hurt and pain.

It’s so much easier to put all your insecurities and uncertainties on a person you don’t even know.

The one person in the situation that was never supposed to be loyal to you, her.

-February 19,2020